Child Development 1 - The Principles
During the first few years of a baby's life, the brain grows and develops significantly. The baby rapidly progresses from a totally dependent infant to an independent youngster capable of basic ways of thinking, responding, and solving problems. While genetics is important in determining your child's abilities, the role of the environment is of equal importance in affecting your child's learning and emotion.
Development is a continuous process. The child goes through each step according to a certain sequence. However, each child is UNIQUE. Your baby will develop at his or her own pace. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of abilities and timing can be normal. It is therefore difficult to be exact about what should be expected at each stage of a particular child's development.
What are the different areas of development
- Emotion and behaviour
- Senses like Vision and Hearing
- Social communication
All areas are important and inter-related.
What your child needs
Children need certain elements to grow and develop to their full potential especially in the early stages of life. He or she needs:
- to feel special, loved, and valued.
- to feel secure.
- to feel confident.
- a balanced experience of freedom and limits.
- to be exposed to a diverse environment filled with a variety of stimulation.
How you can help
By providing an appropriate environment for your child, you can make a difference to your child's development.
- Provide an interesting and safe physical environment, including age and developmentally appropriate play materials, for your child to explore and learn.
- Respond warmly and contingently to your child's behavior: smiling when your child smiles, listening and responding to your child's questions however briefly.
- Talk to and with your child often, using lively, descriptively rich, and accurate language, encourage him to express himself.
- Avoid too much restriction, punishment or control. Instead, give your child room to explore and even opportunity to make mistakes within safe boundaries.
- Have reasonable expectations for your child's abilities.
The following series of "Child Development" serve to show a general progression through the developmental stages. Every child is unique. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and others later than the general trend.
Don't be over alarmed if your baby's development takes a slightly different timing or your baby fails to attain certain abilities at some stage. It may only signal a need for special attention.
If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, discuss with the nurses or doctors at any MCHC or your family doctor/paediatrician.
We have a series of "Happy Parenting!" workshops and leaflets for expectant parents, parents of infants and preschool children. Please contact our healthcare personnel for information.