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After the second birthday, the speed of your child's physical growth and motor development will slow down relatively. Yet, you will see more tremendous changes in her intellectual, language, social and emotional development. Clashes arising from your increased expectation and her growing independence may be quite emotional for both. Understanding and accepting these changes, and adopting a positive parenting strategy, will make it easier for both of you in the coming years. She will learn to feel comfortable, capable and special. These feelings will help her to develop a positive self image and adjust more successfully to future social demands. By the end of this period, your baby will be able to: Movement * Run fast * Kick ball * Jump and climb well * Walk up and down stairs without any help * Pedal tricycle
Hand and finger skills * Hold pencil and mark vertical and horizontal strokes on paper * Build simple model with construction toys * Thread beads * Turn page of book one at a time * Wind up toys Language development * Follow short commands (eg. 'Put the car in the toy box.') * Recognize and identify most common objects and pictures * Understand verbs and adjectives (eg. 'open' ,'hot' etc.) * Answer simple 'Yes/No', 'What' and 'Where' questions * Speak in phrases or simple sentences (eg. 'Mummy want cookies', 'Where's the ball?') * Start to use pronoun (eg. 'I want my cup') * Give name and age when asked * Like to ask 'What' questions
Cognitive Development By now your child's learning process has become more thoughtful. HE begins to form mental images of objects, actions and concepts based on language. He can now solve problem mentally instead of relying on manipulating the objects physically. His improved memory and attention span allow him to be more focused and engage in quiet play. As he begins to understand the relationship between objects, he will enjoy putting simple puzzles together and various sorting games. The concept of 'cause and effect' helps him realize how certain toys work, eg. winding-up toys. Even then, he is still not yet capable of abstract logical reasoning. His view of the world is simple and straight forward. As he will take your literally, and may not understand jokes, you will need to be careful in choosing your words. * Match objects with pictures * Sort and identify a few colours * Begin to understand number concepts, know the concept of 'one' and 'two' * Complete puzzles of 3-4 pieces * Become more elaborate in pretend play, taking roles (eg. pretending to be a doctor or a teacher), and using one object to represent another. (eg. putting a comb to his ear to pretend that is a telephone, of course he knows that it is not!)
Social and emotional development * Still being self-centred * Imitate mannerisms and behaviours of adults and playmates * Show affection for familiar playmates * Start taking turns and sharing. * Show temper tantrum and rebellious behaviours when obstructed Self Care Skills * Keep dry by day * Feed self more skillfully * Dress and undress simple garments
Stimulating young child's development Children at this age can be extremely active and energetic. It is perfectly normal for your child to prefer running, jumping, and climbing to walking slowly or sitting still. If she is an active child, adjust your expectation. Instead of putting her in a confining environment, try giving her opportunities to release her energy by running and moving around in a safe, open space (eg. like playgrounds and parks) under your supervision. Continue to spend time with your child; show affection and attention to her. Establish simple rules with your child be consistent in carrying them out. Encourage desirable behaviours by praising her or giving other positive attention. Set a good example for your child to learn from. Make use of every opportunity to teach her new skills. Attending nursery school will provide a chance for her to interact with other children and adults outside home. It will help her improve her social skills as well as introduce her to more formal rules than those established at home. What you can do: * Allow your child to go outdoor everyday to run, play, and explore eg. in playgrounds and parks * Make use of everyday activities to introduce concepts of size, colour and numbers * Read to your child each day, encourage him to learn new words, help him to lengthen his sentences and to answer simple questions * Choose activity-oriented, colourful picture or short story books can help to maintain his attention
* Encourage and join in make-believe play with your child, making use of available household materials * Encourage him to be independent in simple self care activities * Provide opportunities for your child to play with other children and adults * Limit your child's television viewing and video time. Choose appropriate programmes for him to watch and guide him along Toys that you can choose: * Miniature toys like tea-set, doll house, car and garage etc * Creative toys like building blocks and play-doh etc * Painting and drawing materials * Colourful picture or short story books * Simple puzzles and matching toys * Musical instruments eg. toy piano, drum etc.
The above information only gives you a general idea of the changes expected as your child grows. Each child is unique and wide variations in the pace of development are often normal. Don't be alarmed if your child's development takes a slightly different timing or your child fails to attain certain abilities at some stage. It may only signal a need for special attention. Discuss with doctors or nurses if, by the end of this period, your child * Falls frequently or has difficulty with stairs * Appears clumsy in manipulating small objects eg. unwrap paper from a candy * Fails to understand simple instructions e.g. 'put the coat into the room' * Fails to communicate in 2-3 words phrases (eg. 'drink juice' , 'want the ball') * Shows no interest in other children * Does not participate in pretend play * Shows extreme difficulty in separating from mother in most situations * Appears not hear or see well If you have any concerns or queries, discuss with nurses and doctors in any MCHC. We have a series of childcare and parenting workshops and leaflets for expectant parents, parents of infants and preschool children. Please contact our healthcare personnel for information. Family Health Service Department of Health
 
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Last revision date: 01 September 2006